today a good friend from college was hit over the head with a chair & put into a coma by some transphobic douche at some club called “glo” in new brunswick. he is awake now, thank every god anyone has ever believed in. the idea of my friend being beaten unconscious is really fucking horrifying. i know this stuff happens all of the time but it has never happened to one of my friends before…
…if you want to bind and wear a dress.
…if you want to stuff and wear a suit.
…if you wear mascara and lipstick and men’s perfume.
…if you get a manicure and take T.
…if you work out, get ripped and then wear a bikini.
…if you like stuff stereotypical of your assigned gender.
…if you have surgery and then wear clothing for your assigned gender.
…if you bind, and then stuff.
…if you stuff, and then bind.
…if you change your name to a gender-neutral one.
…if you only want surgery sometimes.
…if you only want hormones sometimes.
…if you only want hormones.
…if you don’t want to medically transition at all.
…if you’re not even sure HOW you would go about dressing in drag.
…if you’re yourself.